Update: I looked through my archive and I have taken this before (twice, in fact) and actually, my score hasn't changed that much. Apparently when I took it before I was confused by the idea of quality time, even though that was always my highest scoring category, and now I feel like I understand it. So it seems that my needs haven't changed that much but my self understanding has improved.
http://spideyj.livejournal.com/81092.html
http://spideyj.livejournal.com/27488.html
Probably not a surprise to those who know me well. Though I suspect the results are probably going to be a little skewed right now (I think I probably like gifts more than I think I do - I just feel like I've gotten a surfeit of that kind of affection and a dearth of the others).
My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.
Take the quiz
http://spideyj.livejournal.com/81092.html
http://spideyj.livejournal.com/27488.html
Probably not a surprise to those who know me well. Though I suspect the results are probably going to be a little skewed right now (I think I probably like gifts more than I think I do - I just feel like I've gotten a surfeit of that kind of affection and a dearth of the others).
The Five Love Languages
My primary love language is probablyQuality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.
Complete set of results
Quality Time: | 12 | |
Physical Touch: | 7 | |
Words of Affirmation: | 7 | |
Acts of Service: | 4 | |
Receiving Gifts: | 0 |
Information
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.Take the quiz